Das wäre was für meine Kleine..sie liebt es solche Szenen “nachzuspielen”.
Monica Bellucci and Jo Prestia in the movie “Irreversible” (2002).
Taken by itself, the portion of the scene shown above can be arousing, but in the context of what comes afterward (and the rest of the movie) it’s sociopathic (I won’t elaborate on the details). I believe this was the aim of the director; it’s a deliberate challenge to the audience to sit through the whole scene, which in its entirety is more about violence than about sex.
It forces the audience to either confront their own conflicts about where exactly to draw the line between those two equally visceral yet essentially opposite acts, or to avoid the confrontation entirely by walking out of the movie (or walking back out of the tunnel, as the man in the distance does).
For a movie in which the older man/”Daddy” figure subjects the girl to non-consensual anal sex, but at the same time expresses tenderness with her and allows her to reciprocate his affection/lust, then I suggest “Last Tango in Paris” (1972).